As for why a woman might pull you in with a pregnancy and then push you away that could happen with a person who enjoys playing games with people. He's always telling you how much he loves you. had this happen to me, I asked "where do you want it" she said "in me" and I just said "Nah" and backed out at the last second. June 28th she sends a photo of a negative pregnancy test to prove she has an abortion. after a long conversation. A week before I was ready to go she told me she was pregnant. I encourage you to get my book, Abuse OF Men BY Women: It Happens, It Hurts, And Its Time to Get Real About It either on my website (https://annsilvers.com/collections/books/products/abuse-of-men-by-women-it-happens-it-hurts ) or from online retailers like Amazon ( https://www.amazon.com/Abuse-men-women-happens-hurts/dp/0983433879 .). I knew he wanted to get me pregnant. A few weeks later I spent the night to stay with my daughter. My long distance boyfriend got a woman ( thats been trying to get with him for a while) pregnant. -thirsty to not wear a condom to either give you an std to make you "attached" or that no one else will want you besides him or. They have not even seen a doctor yet. Your partner keeps bringing up marriage discussions. But opting out of some of these cookies may affect your browsing experience. The disappointment could be a show to cover her tracks. So unless your girlfriend or whoever had tuberculosis, they shouldnt have any problems with antibiotics interfering with BC. 1. Didnt talk for admit 4 days. Ive seen another case of a woman using it a couple of times. Some of the red flags you might see include his working excessive overtime or spending too much time at the office, her being vague about where she's been or will be, his or her dependence on alcohol or drugs, his asking you for money, her lack of boundaries with her family, his siding the with guys over you, her blaming everyone but herself for There is only so much time to run with a false pregnancy story. Very cozy. Later on she said she was at work and couldnt answer. 2. Im a traditional man and would prefer to raise a child in a home but from previous experience I know that if I didnt think marrying was a good idea, having a baby doesnt change that. No matter what you want, he'll do what you say. If you are being tricked into fatherhood, chances are you are vulnerable to other ways women abuse men,you need my books: Or for a summary of the larger book that is linked above: Previous Post Im average looking 61", 225. Wow. He wants to be your hero. She starts to wonder if perhaps she is misunderstanding him. Our son sadly is a loveable man who is gullible. My gf of 6 months, whos in her final year studying civil engineering told me on 6th June she wasnt feeling well, I should find a clinic for her to visit. Hi Cj Lef. No thank you. Your opinion will be appreciated. Something eventually has to happen. I never let the little head do the thinking. She has a lame excuse for going off birth control. Once they start joking about this, pack you stuff and leave, or kick them out. Maybe you are on the pills and he tries to persuade you on skipping some days or gives you the effects of using pills just to make you stop completely from taking them. Hey there, my name is Dustin and Im going through a tough situation with my ex girlfriend and her fianc and Im wondering if Im making a mistake always being there for her and going behind his back and having some fun of my own with her. But, when a woman is pregnant, the motivation to dress up or even change into fresh clothes somewhat disappears. Also, be careful around single moms. He Seems A Little Bit More Mellow Around Babies And Children One of the signs that should tip you off that your man wants to get you pregnant is when he becomes softer around children than he used to be. People think of kids in way too light a sense. If youve found the perfect woman in a surprisingly short period of time, find out whether she just lost a relationship that was paying all of her bills for her. I stuck with it and put up with shit for 18 years. It is a common habit of men with the tendency of wanting to lock a girl. After breaking it off Ive seen her twice while going out with different women. 3. He gave the exact same story without knowing the details of ours. Thank you for putting this together. I worked my ass off, did most of the cooking, cleaning, chores and helped with the kids homework every night while running a business. He said when he asked her about being on the pill she said she was taking some antibiotics and it made it less effective. She was useless! 18. I knew we werent exclusive and we are a lot older past the point of the wanting more kids. The content produced by YourTango is for informational and educational purposes only. Some major signs he wants to get you pregnant are: You feel like he may be trying to get you pregnant You feel like you can't trust him implicitly. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. Please help! But for the first time ever, she has this attitude of defiance and a little demanding. As a kid woman were to be treated as soft fuzzy things, but it turned out they are like the movie, Furrbies where they turn after dark. I was actually thinking of choosing her to be in an exclusive relationship and get married when this happened and everything changed. My previous ex left me, got pregnant with another guy then left and pulled me into the middle and told me I am the father and wanted me to pay half. Hi Mi. OP, don't date or sleep with assholes. What are your ovulation days? 24) He respects your boundaries. Youve made it clear you dont want kids now. She had to get up and have to puke several times. I am the result of a suspected baby trap, 44 year female and a total failure in life. So 15 days after sex with me, shes now 5weeks and absolutely 100% positive its mine. I was dating her for about 2 years before I went off to Marine Boot Camp. I had to pass up a lot of opportunities. He said things like " women should serve their man" so any woman who had his child would be his property in his mind. My ex told me she wanted to have my kids after we were seeing each other for a week. There is a chapter for friends and families of abused men. If you feel strongly about this topic please only vote for politicians that wsnt bc and abortions to be safe & legal or dont complain. Please note: comments must be approved before they are published. Besides seeing women trap servicemen with pregnancies, Ive also seen them have affairs and clean out their bank account while they are deployed. She could run away with your kid when she gets out into the world and meets someone else. (Theres more to the story but these are facts). Maybe he was too violent with you, a drug addict, possessive or you had no feelings towards him and you tried to face him and had a break up which later you resolved. My future brother in law dated a single mom of a 5 year old, and she, unsurprisingly, got pregnant within 3-4 months of dating. Ive responded to the email address you provided. My brother had expressed to her that he didnt want a child, so they both agreed on terminating the pregnancy, but, behind his back she cancelled the appointment. What's Wrong with the Duluth Model for DV Treatment. If you were thinking about breaking up with herthe pregnancy might be a trap. Its hard to tell what was really going on with your ex, but it is easy to say that you should stay away from her and move on with your life. Not long enough, the man had a feeling that the lady was not much interested and so he started thinking of ways to make her stay. We had many conversations on this subject and was on board with everything. Couples become closer once they become parents. I see so many red flags and want him to process all this. We do the tests and she is 2 weeks pregnant. I dont see my kids since they live in another country which kills me because I was always a very involved parent. Trap Red Flag #4. A year and a half later she died. However, she has done nothing but cause contention, be deceptive with finances and last year she out of the blue asked if I was the beneficiary for my parents assets. Later on they were joined by two other guys and she was very touchy with one of them. Because hes now running to her? In the day-to-day moments, she questions herself because he acts like she's imagining all the stuff she's experiencing. So I proceeded that way, not suspecting that she could be lying. This is not an unusual phenomenon and can be experienced by almost anyone. I was convinced this girl was different but I guess I was wrong. After she was out of the hospital she pretended to be weak and always stomach sick as if the pills caused a permanent damage in her. Please give me any advice to get him to atleast wait to get married, to establish paternity . He wants to do the honorable thing. A woman in an unchangeable, toxic relationship typically has the same expectations she would have of a changeable, healthy relationships so she gets caught up waiting and expecting the situation to get back to the "normal" she saw in the beginning. I feel sorry for trapped daddy #2 and #3, but it seems like they could have used common sense to not get trapped like the 1st daddy. As men get older they are more willing to do these kinds of risk because they are closer to the end and want more out of life then just money or career success. I was clear from day 1 I didnt want any kids or marriage. Had several women try that shit on me. It sure looks like the womans story fits as a fake pregnancy trap: (1) announcing she was pregnant after the break-up (2) the dates not adding up (3) the miscarriage. Theres no point in trying to get her to admit it. To get back to the messaging, I tell her Im uncomfortable seeing you in person after you made me and the person I was with scared in public to which she denies never happening. She cannot decipher which is the real guy: the vulnerable one she met in the beginning, the one who acts normal for the long stretches of time, or the one who is playing games and hurting her. I run into some still looking, but they are after the same thing. 1. If the man gets over-possessive, stops using protection measures during intercourse, discusses funny topics on baby fever, jumps to marriage topics, discourages you from birth control pills, you have ever broken up before then he would trap you with pregnancy. The hormones in the pills make some women feel sick (though this is usually evident when a woman starts taking the pills, not usually something that suddenly happens later). Especially points #7 and #8. Mostly the symptoms from her very poor lifestyle. When young women wouldnt even talk to me, but when I got older, with house, business and aircraft and was traveling around the world I was the hottest thing around. Believing God to work a miracle in her heart and confess (and out of fear He may squish my soul if I divorced) I stayed with her and we now have two more children (a girl and two boys). Then it changed to we all do the same things. #8. She said that the pills may have not worked. Abortion. It may be more than a coincidence that your girlfriend or wife announced she was pregnant right after you broke up with her. She has something to gain from being your baby momma. She may not care what your thoughts/feelings are about fatherhood, or she may have convinced herself that youre going to be OK with having a child if it is flung on you, youre just apprehensive about committing. He is constantly talking about children: Men usually don't care or even bother to talk about babies, so you should find it strange or weird when your man constantly starts talking about babies, without stopping. It does sound like you were baby trapped. Your partner keeps making jokes about you two having a baby or family, 5. Trap Red Flag #6. (Maybe because they are rescuers. His life is meaningful because he is a parent. I found the birth control pills that she stopped using a few months before I left for Boot Camp. Now shes staying over his house every now & then & theyre really gonna go through with their fake charade of being a couple. Not just her fault hes an idiot. I feel all is lost. With the court system the way it is I couldnt see being a money slave for some hoe I couldnt stand. A question he needs to ask himself is: Would I be marrying this woman now if she wasnt pregnant with my child? Clearly, the answer would be No.. But I was very sure I must take responsibility to raise a child. For him, he will come back with strategies to lock you up for marriage. 2023byTango Publishing Corporation All Rights Reserved. Bank account. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. Was this step helpful? See additional information. I had decided to break off the relationship as soon as I got back home. Unfortunately, you are in a bad situation in a marriage with someone who is dedicated to her manipulative patterns. Advertisement cookies are used to provide visitors with relevant ads and marketing campaigns. He was free to choose whatever he wanted. Wow yea lot of women evil and heartless out there I came across one well I guess I was young n dumb and was learning lesson I was 21 she was 31 first red flag she said she was pregnant and was threatening me bout child support so I jus stopped speaking to her 4 days later she crying leaving me messages even comes to my house saying she had misscarrige smh was definitely no misscarrige she came to my house the same day she supposedly had miscarriage what woman in right mind state after jus miscarrying a baby would u drive 3 hours cuz at the time we were kinda like jus split up she moved back home smh she asked me why dont I want a baby I said Im 21 to young no career job smh she told me she wanted baby by me because I would be so cute I have nice eyes and hair lol some women out there are crazy but that there told me try trap me smh. Math in my head seemed odd but again I trusted her. From what Ive read, engaging and arguing with a narcissist is the worst choice to make. We agreed it was best to not go through with the pregnancy, besides, itd affect her last year in school. Similarly, a womans IUD (Intrauterine Device) may come out on its own, but when this does happen it is usually in the first few months of use. If you havent read my post about the Fake pregnancy and paternity industry, I suggest you do: https://annsilvers.com/blogs/news/fake-pregnancy-and-paternity-industry-exposed. Signs a woman wants to trap a man with a baby: 1. They may fake it until they can make it. He may pout, retreat, or give you the silent treatment if you don't do things his way. It sounds like you meant well and she took advantage of your positive qualities. He already is shutting us out because we cannot get on board with the choices they are making. Wake up and be cautious not to fall into regrets. She convinced you to go ahead, I cant get pregnant today.. Im not planning on doing so anytime soon. I strongly suspect my mother got pregnant with me to trap my dad so that she would have a better life as the wife of a policeman in another European country (think of the blonde woman in A Officer and a Gentleman). If your partner already crossed boundaries about your body or pushed you to give up major parts of your life for them, they might babytrap you. There are legitimate reasons for going off of birth control pills. And its true that men will do it to control. Worst part of all of this is Im the bad guy. Shocker!!!! Thanks, and any other advice you are willing to share will be appreciated immensely. The following are the details, is there anything I can do to help protect myself, my children and bring her to justice? You can get it on the website youre currently on: https://annsilvers.com/collections/books/products/abuse-of-men-by-women-it-happens-it-hurts, or on Amazon. Out of these, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. It's a fantasy that sometimes turns to reality. At the time we were deeply in love with each other. He's trying to keep yourself esteem low to keep you trapped in the shitty relationship. First saying that Im too good of a friend to her ex (my friend). Here's Everything You Need To Know About The Term (And If It Might Be Happening To You), Statistically, This Is How You Will Probably Meet The Man Of Your Dreams, 10 Run-As-Fast-As-You-Can Signs Of Abuse In A Relationship, My Abuser Tried To Buy My Silence For $10,000 But I Didn't Let Him, What Is The 'Cycle Of Abuse'? 5. Thanks for sharing your story Ozoz. He may claim that a promise he made was not actually made, or that it wasn't made in the way you understood it, but you know better. Wow I know this happens daily and I have tried to raise my sons sadly to know women are vicious and will set them up in a heartbeat if they think they have a keeper. It sounds like you are feeling both anxious and depressed. Polygraph? Ignoring me in fact whilst still maintaining shes pregnant but has never down me a positive pregnancy test? It is upon you to be more cautious and make him know that you are not ready. A few more days went by, no word from her until the early hours of 18th June when I got a missed video call at 2:15am from her. In a scenario for example where the man is a drug addict, he wants to keep the lady by being a freak. But it is a changing world. If a man is interested in having his own children, he's going to have no problem interacting with other's children. He is up to something fishy. That was June 28th. Have you ever heard of such cases where a lady got pregnant but insists that she used a condom? Read on for 21 signs your man is still in love with his ex who is also his baby mama. Giving her attention? I thought it must be the hormones. Thank you so much for sharing the childs side of the baby-trap story. I was not trying to tie him down. Even after claiming shes had an abortion. 6 months before I finish my degree she was cheating with another guy for a whole year and when I confronted her she started to manipulate me with a series of lies that were extremely convincing. A woman who wants to get pregnant when her partner doesn't may seduce him when she thinks she has an increased chance of conceiving. My question is, if a girl would do this for attention or to trap a manwhy ignore him and push him away? This is really affecting me in more ways than one. She sent a message reading hello. We use cookies on our website to give you the most relevant experience by remembering your preferences and repeat visits. Your partner keeps making jokes about you two having a baby or family. You have heard of stories of home violence where a man flogs his girlfriend for talking to other guys. You are right. This is a loud sign girl. How To Recognize Subtle Signs Of Domestic Violence, 3 Mind Games The Most Insecure Men Play In Relationships, If Your Guy Does These 7 Things, He's Playing You For A Fool, 16 Warning Signs You're Dealing With An EVIL Person, The EXACT Moment Men Fall Out Of Love With Their Partners, and identifying the covert toxic dynamics at play. Never looked back. Some signs he's trying to get you pregnant are: He talks about babies frequently He tries to forego birth control, like condoms He often initiates sex when you are sleepy or otherwise preoccupied He keeps trying to coax you to have unprotected sex in the heat of the moment He insists on getting condoms all the time It does not store any personal data. This girl has no idea what she is getting into with him. I felt guilty cause I did finish inside her but the more time passes my initial intuition is 100% this was planned by her. Performance cookies are used to understand and analyze the key performance indexes of the website which helps in delivering a better user experience for the visitors. Campregnancy gestation includes the 2 weeks before the child was conceivedthe time period between menstruation and ovulation. The cookie is set by the GDPR Cookie Consent plugin and is used to store whether or not user has consented to the use of cookies. It is strange how men also trap ladies by impregnating them. The following day I called her. 30 direct signs that he secretly wants you pregnant: 1. #1. She then says it was an accident, but it was actually the result of a well-conceived plan (figuratively and literally). This is especially concerning if the two of you have only been dating for a short period of time, or if they suggest moving in without discussing it first. He discourages you from using birth control pills, 7. Trapping a man with a pregnancy and other forms of taking his reproductive rights away is partner sexual abuse. Does this person sound crazy enough to have a child out of spite? Even stole money from me, her daughter, and my business many times. Not only does he think this is a good idea to have a child but also feels he needs to do the admirable thing and marry her immediately. Just a piece of advice that you may avoid meetings with him until you know you are safe or you may consider using protection. I know a woman who accidentally got pregnant 3 times, trying to trap 3 different men. He tries confusing you into giving him contradictory answers which makes you feel like you are the bad person in the relationship. Each attempt lets her hone her skills until she finally snares a guy. I hope you keep good track and hide these days from him. Yes, you are making a mistake always being there for her and going behind his [her fiancs] back and having some fun of my own with her. Neither of you is behaving in a way that leads to health and happiness. He hates secrets. Trap Red Flag #7. Answer (1 of 11): Control and ownership. Javier: I will reach out to you via email to talk further. Instead of him being romantic, he is jealous of everyone around you and even wants to prove to the world that he is dating you. Not just to become another selfish consumer or opiod addict, etc. Hopefully, you can find happiness in other parts of your life even as you deal with missing your daughter. June 18th. Trap Red Flag #1. I just dont know what to do anymore or what to do, In response to Bruce: I hope others read your story and protect themselves from what you are experiencing. I know he is feeling bad for her story and is too embarrassed of himself to admit that he fell for it. This article is really opening my eyes on a current situation Im in. Clearly they did not want to take plan B or birth control. As funny as this sounds it is a real sign that he wants to trap you with pregnancy. So Ive lost this person. She may be trying to ensnare you with the "lying about a pregnancy to keep him" trap. He pressures . I have always believed this happened to me. She drank and smoked herself to death. The cookies is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Necessary". 3. Here are 12 signs that a man is desperate to get married: 1) He Does Everything You Say You've never been in a relationship with a man who was so agreeable, have you? 1. Very well said Switch and great advice youd give to your son! We hooked up on Nov.15th. He should do nothing before attending a doctors appointment with her and confirming in-person that she is actually pregnant. because I guess of how he is feeling about me telling him she did it on purpose that he tried to tell me i got pregnant on purpose Because I am more experienced with Motherhood and older then him, that I should have know better. Eventually, the lie is going to catch up with her. I too have seen that military guys can become a particularly vulnerable target for manipulative women. We broke up because he said he wanted to see if he could provide the child with the home environment he didnt have & see if he could grow to love the woman . He always makes sure you feel comfortable and happy in any situation. Later that evening she sent me a picture of a negative pregnancy test with the connotation she has had to do what she has to do. If on the other hand, you got close to intercourse with her around the day she conceived and used a technique such as withdrawal then you could have given her enough sperm to have created offspring. Trap Red Flag #2. I think thats what emma roberts did to garrett hedlund. Dont trust women who dont have anything to look forward to or work towards because those are the types of women that unilaterally decide to get pregnant with no regard to the mans goals/ideals for the future. By the way, I'm never having a kid, EVER." Well, it turns out that the reverse situation happens too, that men trap women-but NOBODY seems to talk about that on this sub. Kat Cook: Thanks for adding these stories of a woman using the pregnancy trap multiple times. How would you proceed? Who is willing to have a baby to stay with someone that doesnt even want to be with them anymore? I want to find out some how if she did it on purpose. 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